As a girl who can't relate to the girls your describing and as a girl who has TONS of friends who also aren't anything like the girls you guys are describing I want to offer some friendly advice... the internet and not -really- meant -for- dating -websites (tinder etc) is a NEST for stupid females who can't carry a normal two sided conversation to save their lives... I'm not saying that they're ALL like that but most are.... WHAT I SUGGEST is to go out and actively pursue YOUR hobbies and you will achieve 2 things... you will eventually meet friends who are girls who share that same hobby AND you will at least be satisfied by doing the things you love!! They create GREAT conversation starters with the guarantee that you both will be interested in the initial conversation! I can almost guarantee it. If you can't think of any hobbies you enjoy, go out and try new things! Go hike! Go to museums, libraries, local oddities, try art or computer design! We live in an age where you can find out about damn near ANYTHING via internet! There are TONS of nice girls out there who wouldn't step FOOT in a tinder app or who doesn't have any social media interest. You just have to go out and surround yourself with activities that make you feel great and the people/companionship will follow! From what I've noticed you guys want companionship SO BAD but your actions say you don't want it bad enough.... get up, get out, or get medicated.