ex liked when I pounded ALL the time, and ladies let me tell you we don't like it that much ether. after a while it hurts like hell, your raw AF and hips feel like you threw your self pelvis first into an oncoming buss. she begged me to "ruin" her as she said and when it was all said and done she said "if this doesnt work idk what id do bc sex will never be the same, you ruined me" I thought well no shit, you can't beg to be slammed like that ALL the time and expect to not be destroyed. eventually she called me a racist, sexist, homophobic, biggot FOR NO REASON, to this day o still don't know why, THEN expected it to be OK. I left her and never went back. ruined my experience for a relationship for a while till I meet my SO and she's exactly what I've been looking for. told her this bc when we meet I was a mess (emotionally and trust wise) she looked at me, said "that bitch is nuts! your not any of that" then I knew it wasn't me. when someone you REALLY give a shit about tells you the truth, you tend to believe it over anyone else. meeting my SO was the beast thing that's ever happened to me.