Honestly I think those men only recognise bombshell women and have consumed media to the point where they think that's the norm, and think all women are experiencing the world from that perspective. Or that women who don't achieve that have something fundamentally wrong with them

And the thing is, it nust doesn't happen the way they think it does, even for conventially gorgeous women (although obviously the stigmatisation of different body types, ageism etc. plays such a huge role)

There are genuinely comments in this thread saying that women can have as much sex as they want with whatever partners they want, can go up to any man and say "be my boyfriend" and it'll be accepted, that women are put on pedestals... it's insane?? How can they actually think like that when in the next breath they'd turn around and accuse thr same women of being a slut, for only sleeping with "Chads", for being attention-whores etc., for playing the "woman card"? You literally can't win! I think I'm actually happier being all but ignored at this point