She said it was because I'd "never get out from under my parents." I live at home, my dad is almost 90 and he almost died the year before, and we weren't at all close when I was growing up, fucking sue me for wanting to stay close to home for a couple more years.
"Jealousy and inability to forgive her for leaving me for her ex on Christmas Eve a year before." - The ONE and ONLY fight we ever had. For background, we had been friends for awhile and were going out a month or two when her ex invited her over to decorate a Christmas tree with his family on the Eve thereof because was feeling lonely (guy was suicidal over their breakup months before) and she assured me he was just her platonic "friend" and nothing to worry about. I was going to be out of town visiting family and not wanting to be jealous or that "controlling" guy I said, "Okay, go and help your friend!" I'd just landed at the start of a two week vacation with my family and got the FB message from her still at the dude's house saying they were back together. A year later we got back together and actually had a really fantastic relationship. Everything seemed to be going great!
Until about 9 months in. We were headed out to a date and she said she was playing a game on a freshman student she was mentoring. She was pretending there was a possible romantic spark between her and a male friend, like there was a romantic tension between them and she wanted "to see how far the freshman girl would go to try to get them together." Again, cool-headed I said: "Okay, but isn't he interested in this other girl? Won't she turn off of him if she thinks this game is for real and there's something between you two?" She said "Oh no, she's going out with someone else now so he tried asking out another girl and she turned him down so he's really, REALLY depressed right now, we were talking on the phone about it all weekend. I'm taking him out for a drink on Saturday night at this bar to talk to him about it!" Now THAT I took her on over. Never would I take a female classmate, let alone one who's romantically depressed, out for a drink when I'm in a relationship, that's just flat out disrespectful to the person I'm with. Hell, my parents are absolutely in love with each other, have been for 30+ years but both said if they found out one was in a bar one-on-one drinking with someone of the opposite sex at night, that'd be it. Not a word would be said, they'd be gone. Period. "You don't do shit like that when you're with someone you love." Maybe it's old fashioned but maybe that's why today there's a 2/3 divorce rate in my state. Two days later we made up and honestly, I had thought we worked things out. Apologies were given, issues discussed, the compromise established we were both able to hang out with whomever we liked but if it made the other person uncomfortable they could politely make their feelings felt ask that they not go but there would be no controlling aspect over it. From that point on though, the relationship went down and I couldn't figure out why.