To those who are virgins or haven't kissed a girl, I'm not going to lie and say these experiences aren't awesome. BUT I will say that they don't define someone as a person.

I recently turned 26 back in August. At 19 I was so utterly convinced that I'd die a kissless virgin that to say I was depressed is an understatement. I even tried suppressing my sexuality; I figured if that if no women were attracted to me then what the hell's the point of being straight? Miraculously, I kissed a girl at the age of 20. At the age of 21 I finally had sex with the same girl. She was my only everything until the age of 24 where I've since slept with a few girls and have kissed even more. It's very sporadic and it's been 8 months since anything. I feel like this time, I'm past my peak. I'm doubting whether or not it'll happen again. I know for sure I'll never find a woman to spend the rest of my life with and I'm coming to terms with it nicely. But one thing's for sure: I fully accredit NoFap for my post-2012 experiences. The initial kiss/sex was a fluke; to this day I don't know how it happened. The stars aligned that's for damn sure.

Trust me when I say that having sex or kissing girls isn't going to magically cure you of negative thoughts or sadness due to being someone who has never had these experiences. Deep down I'm still the same kissless virgin and I will be for the rest of my life. No amount of kissing or mind-blowing sex will change that.

I guess the moral of the story is, you're awesome whether you're a kissless virgin or not.