Dude...girls can be fucking hardcore when it comes to fights. In high school, we had more girl fights than guy fights. One girl smashed another's face into a locker a dozen or so times before it was broken up. And I mean grabbed by the hair on the back of her head and smashed into metal. Another time a younger girl said something stupid and an older girl who was actually my friend's sister beat the ever loving hell out of her, there were clumps of her hair on the floor.
At one point there was this girl in my school and she was actually really popular, her and her friends were like the polar opposite of the people I chilled with. Then one day something, and to this day no one can tell me what (this was over 10 years ago) happened and they all fucking hated here.
I don't mean they gave her dirty looks or made her drop her books. I mean they would fucking slap her in the hall for no reason, say pretty vile things about her, in front of her or not, and these were people who had been her friends as long as we'd been in school....
She ended up having to fucking change schools and was never seen around my school, or town again. The speed with which they turned from best friends to mortal enemies was really scary, even back then.
I was always glad that disputes like that between guys generally ended when the fight ended. There was no ongoing feud or anything like that, it was just the end of that issue. Girls fucking carried that shit out forever. It sounds like the guys who follow you and jump you have the mentality of high school girls.
Oh, and one male teacher took a serious, serious punt to his nuts when trying to break up a fight between two girls. This guy was the jv football coach, and actually a good teacher, and he went down like the he had just taken a punch from an MMA fighter. Took him a while to get up.
Honestly I haven't seen this shit since high school. I guess I don't frequent the sort of bars where people generally get into this sort of dispute? Most of us don't want to fuck up our suits (dresses, ladies) or beat each other, even when shitfaced. Last time I saw anything like this was last summer, Lake George, some fucking pervert was taking upskirt pics at a club. The bouncer, who we had seen 3 nights in a row and was a fucking (very polite) scary dude, chased him down until the cops got there about 30 seconds later.
People don't fight where I am maybe? And dude I go to some really shitty dives and at least one bar frequented by a motorcycle club. Never had any issue with anyone, have never seen people get into fights, guys or girls...wait..no..
There was a girl fight, maybe two or three years ago. One got thrown down the outside back stairs of the bar and lost a tooth when the other girl threw her into a 4"x4" post. No idea what it was about but we all just went back to playing darts.
Do you work in like, Camden or Seaside aka Sleezeside or something? I live in NJ so for me that's like the shit you see in Jersey Shore but really never happens unless you act like a complete asshole to someone.