Women are not out there in the world to control men; they're individuals with different personalities, goals, achievements, talents, worldviews, etc. Every guy isn't identical, every woman isn't identical. Yeah, I was fired from my job by some total fraud who lied to Human Resources, but after looking into this woman mental health (I had an inkling that she had mental issues because she was always emotionless and cold), I discovered her turbulent past (a disturbing pattern of behavior, etc) and just how much of a damaged person she really is; she's a clinical sociopath diagnosed with an extreme case of APD. People usually become sociopaths due to horrible childhood trauma Sure, modern society does have its ridiculous expectations and double standards for both groups. Feminism is a harmful movement that destabilizes and disrupts family units, but most women are not feminists or have their own ideas and interpretations. I've met horribly shitty women that I would never lift a finger for in a life or death scenario, but I've also met decent ones.