Yes I agree. I have done so much work on myself now, and still love him. I feel like I would never chase again. He just called me again before. Instead of having a date first, he has invited me to his house so we can just talk about everything. He said he has a lot of regrets when it comes to me. He said he felt like it was wrong of him to catch feelings because I was in a rship. He didnt want to hurt me. He said he was blindsided at work and hr was looking for a reason to get rid of me. He said they were pretty bad to him too but he felt like it waa best that i wasnt treated bad by them snd better to leave. He said after i left, they treated him bad. They always made him feel like a monster. He said he couldnt even eat in the tea room anymore. The whole place just hurt him because it just reminded him of us. He said there were nights when he didnt want to wake up. He missed me so much. Ive just spend the past hour crying on the phone with him. Its really raw. I love him so much.