Hold up. In another comment you said you “have no control” over your attraction towards your “friend,” so you keep distancing yourself just to keep coming back because you like her, but you’re also saying you wish to be “friends” with her, but are too weak to have sexual self-moderation around her? All while you’re currently in a relationship?

You’re a classic example of why most women don’t feel stable or safe being in relationships with m*n nowadays. This is some weak minded b.s.

Bunch of flip-flops. Way too complicated and impulsive.

Leave her alone, and perhaps leave your girlfriend too. They deserve better than some immature creep. Sorry not sorry.