3. I (21F) feel like my body is a letdown to any potential males...

I (21F) feel like my body is a letdown to any potential males...

I’m not sure this will put things in perspective for you or be unhelpful, but I have always been a healthy weight, hourglass figure, and conventionally attractive. While I recognize that I probably get special treatment out in the world for this, it has done very little for me in my relationships. It’s just been one disaster after another between picking the wrong men and having bad relationship skills. If you are emotionally healthy and pick a partner who is emotionally healthy, you can have great relationships with lots of love and sex. Your body and sex appeal cannot get you anything that really matters. Focus on growing as a person and making healthy choices and learn to love yourself and you will find what you need in a relationship.

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