Thank you; I'm being downvoted for saying it (albiet in a pissy way), but that's exactly how I feel. Him being an idiot tonight and us having different communication styles doesn't make us incompatible. Labeling this as a lost cause over one post is just....I don't get it.

Now that that's done....yes. I was stressed. Tone is non-existent in messages. I was an idiot/ass. He was an idiot/ass. Everyone sucks here. I don't know when I'll see him next (either tomorrow or Saturday, we didn't firm that up), but hopefully it's something we can talk out in person. Also, hopefully he's more receptive to: "hey...when a lady says she's sexually harassed, the best comment to make is probably not one that sounds like you're blaming the person for not doing more to stop it in the first place." Worded nicer, of course.