I whole heartedly agree with this. When I was reading this it sounds like you genuinely did it as a way of flirting. Yes, she might’ve been a victim of SA in the past but you couldn’t have known that unless she explicitly told you (I’m a survivor of SA myself).

Restraining her is really where I can see this going a different way, but I don’t see how people are saying you forced her to kiss you unless they were there themselves. You also said you both were pretty drunk so you both could remember these events in two different ways. Also I’m going to point out the whole part of people saying “younger than you” like yes she was 2 years younger, but the way people are making it sound is just WOW.

I’d say just delete this and move on. Make new friends and learn from this.