I'm almost 45, ADHD have ruin my life on many point (basically make me sort of poor and alone, well even if it also could help me to make money and friend kinda easily -when I want-)

But tbh I don't care that much about what I could have be but more about what are my opportunity now

Good thing is after decades I know myself know and what I have to deal with

I mean I don't want to tell you that life will be good or else, because idk what life will be (mien or yours)
I just tell you that I don't care any more about many thing, I just want to be in peace with myself, take the positive think I can take and else, I have spend too much time telling myself that it was to late to try to have a better life, don't be like me, embrace life the way you can, whatever the damage of ADHD we have no choice so just try to find the life that suit yourself the best whatever you are and your disability