Reaching out to have a discussion about a payment plan is not pressuring someone to pay. She even stated that she didn’t expect her to pay it back so soon, she just wanted start the discussion around how the money could be paid back. That is a perfectly reasonable adult conversation to have after half a year

Pressuring her would be calling her weekly asking where the money is, or when she could expect her first payment

Seems there are a few posters on Reddit that expect people to loan money and then be permanently passive about it and never bring up payment or they’re an asshole

Reminds me why I don’t lend money to anyone. The world is full of choosey beggars and selfish people