Communication could do us good but believe it or not we’ve gotten better wayyy better than we were before lol. But I’ll definitely take that advice!

That’s a good idea. & because we don’t have privacy at my home/my grandparents home & we don’t want to pay for hotels anymore. He lives an hour away so it would be a good place to hang out & sleep during the days/weeks that he comes. It’s way cheaper than him coming & paying for hotels. And I could say no, but it’s something to do during quarantine, & why say no if he really wants to. The costs are actually relatively cheap, just no one wants to pay for the wood & windows, so it’s more about stubbornness I guess. We’re both more than willing to purchase literally EVERYTHING else for it, he even offered today to pay for the things I initially said I was purchasing, we’re just both being stubborn.

& thank you!

He’s made jokes that if I leave him after I fix it he’s burning it down so I thought that solved it lmao. But realistically I never thought about it because I never viewed it as “using him for his work” as others have said. If it’s a good breakup I’d let him keep it if he even wants & has room for it (he lives in an apartment so). If it’s not, it’ll sit there like it does now. I have no purpose for it if we were to break up.

Thank you for your replies!