Against the grain, but NAH. Yet. I think you are bringing a lot of pregnancy emotions, past emotions, and future fears into this. And that’s okay AND expected. And you are not wrong to feel hurt by this. However, I’m sure he’s feeling things he has never felt before and is not fully understanding your past and present emotions and what they mean. He’s never been around for this part and i understand wanting a child that shares DNA with you. I would have a follow up conversation about why this upsets you and how even if he has slightly different emotions about the children that he can and has to treat them equally. And his concern about not is normal. If he pushes back and continues making his biological kid more important then he is definitely an AH.