NAH

We can't judge people based on what they are willing to agree to right now. To truly judge someone, we need to know what they will agree to modify when life changes. But that's impossible - so every relationship is a roll of the dice.

When change came along, you didn't turn out to be the girl who would put children first and fight to raise a family no matter what. Based on your description, he definitely should not have been expecting that. So, I can't blame either of you for anything other than being a bit unlucky.

So, yall seemed to have made a somewhat tenuous agreement, and it didn't work out. Honestly, my only advice is that if you end up breaking up, please don't believe it's morally right to steal half his stuff.

It isn't.