Nta- I’d have a hard time getting past that too. I’ve cut a friend out for a similar reason and it wasn’t even directed at me. I just can’t be friends with someone who is anti abortion and shames people for having sex. It probably won’t be the last time she says shit like that, that will bring back painful memories. If you were my friend Even if you just had a slip up and didn’t use protection I’d just be there for you. There’s no need to say that shit out loud when someone’s is in pain and already upset and if it was a slip up with not using it, that persons already filled with regret anyway. The shittiest part is that you did everything right with protection so I guess she means just don’t have sex.