You have no interest in hearing the truth. You’re disregarding everything everyone is saying here (on a post you made asking for judgement) YTA for playing professional and leaving them with a mess WHILE SHES PREGNANT. And you’re so sore over them having to get a contractor to finish the job you started that you’re sacrificing your relationship with your child and grandchild. Sir, you need the Lord in your life because WOW. If my dad created this mess for me to deal with, left town, then blamed ME, while I was pregnant— I would never get over the hurt. Heartbreaking. You’ve messed up big time and keep trying to backpedal and make yourself out to be the victim. You’re the problem and so is your wife. Acknowledge it.