“She was received quite well”

You literally don’t know that. Sororities aren’t gonna tell PNMs what the deliberations about them are like. Did she get a bid? That’s the $1,000,000 question, because if she didn’t, it ruins your whole schtick.

And I’m not saying your lived experience were invalid, but based on your comments and post, it seemed apparent that your motivations for wanting to join a fraternity weren’t authentic. Huge difference.

And yeah, I have an autistic guy in my pledge class. That was just used as a counter example that we don’t exclude and treat neurodivergent people like shit, figured it’s kinda relevant.

Does it give me the right to be shitty to other neurodivergent people? No, and in fact I’m shitty to very very very few people in my every day life, the same goes for neurodivergent people, but I’m being shitty to you, a neurodivergent person, because well, you’re shitty. Thought that was self explanatory but yeah.