Please do not generalize that a lot skinny people's insecurities is being fat. That is not my insecurity. My insecurity is being seen as having a child's body, and being infantilized by my friends, as well as not being seen as "real woman" to men because of my body. All my life I have tried to gain extra weight, and my biggest fear is definitely not being "fat".

I understand that skinny people are treated better in society, I do. I understand how hurtful it is for so many people's fear to be gaining weight. I get it, and I'm sorry I do not face the same issues as you do. But it does not mean I still don't face problems regarding my body size.