Sorry, but ESH - except the poor baby who at some point in her life will realize that you do NOT want her.

This makes me so, so mad for her.

If you were so adamant that you did not want children, why did you not both take better precautions?

Why let yourself be convinced to have the child? I hate to see situations where someone clearly does not want a child and then "being forced" to be a parent. They tend to not have happy endings.

I get what you are going through, because I have two of my own. Being a SAHM is tough and it can suck, and you need a break, yes.

The way your husband is acting is not good enough, period.

Just awful carry-on...