OP, I don’t feel sorry for you. He didn’t “baby trap you.” Y’all made the decision to fuck unprotected and got a baby out of it. GTFO with that victim mentality. You’re a grown ass adult who is capable of making sound, logical decisions yet you still chose to bring a life into this world that you didn’t want. You can choose to make your life easier or not, but being a woman doesn’t mean you automatically get the upper hand in life. Being a full-time working parent and being a SAH parent are equally difficult. I’ve done both! Depending on your husband’s job, it’s pretty unfair to expect someone that works a 8-10hr grueling shift of manual labor to come home and do everything you didn’t finish. I’m a full-time working mother and every part of my body aches as soon as I come home, and I just want a hot meal and a bath. I’d be pretty pissed if I had a hard day at work and came home to my husband bitching about parenting.