ESH. Contrary to popular belief, you husband isn't supposed to worship the ground you walk on. If he finds something you do unattractive, it's not rude, not is it a reason for you to yell at him. Personally I wouldn't like if my man used the toilet with the door open. See? A preference. That action is unattractive to me. You not shaving your legs is an action that's unattractive to your man. No big deal Just look into other alternatives to shaving, there's millions of options you can choose from and they all have pros and cons to each, just choose the ones that have the pros according to your liking. If you really are into having hair then just have a conversation with your guy and make a standing in it.