NTA. The kid asked you a question and you’ve answered honestly from your point of view. You didn’t know she was measuring you against her mom, and that she’d then go to her house and make comparisons or put her down. Had you known, maybe you would have said “But i respect the work of SAHM because they’re awesome” or something. But you didn’t have all the information. Don’t beat yourself up over this. Young women at this age are figuring their own identity and she has two different role models, you and her mom. Maybe she’s conflicted about her mom’s choices and in her own process, hurt her mother. You had nothing to do with it b