YTA Did you ever put yourself in their shoes and think about what the reason behind their behavior? Let's be honest college students are not full grown adults. This is most of their first times living away from home and could come from a multitude of backgrounds. I personally had to put myself through school and I ran out of all of my savings from working as a teen. I worked 3 jobs and went to school. I also was in Fine Arts, my engagement suffered tremendously due to my insane workload. The world would be a much better place if people started having conversation and asking questions before jumping to conclusions. This judgment is based on the information provided.