Contempt for my wife? Hardly. If I hated her, this would have been easy and I wouldn't be here.

Never said she's a f'up - your words. Never stopped her from doing anything just because she was the center of my world. Never said about insane complaints and I every time I started saying no, cops are being called to my doors.

So calling cops for everything is a reasonable solution? Not standing by your partner is acceptable? Because f'ing up over and over again and not fixing it herself and then dragging me in when shit hits the fan is ok?

Just because I posted my thoughts and didn't agree with everything you said in your little snarky note here made you label me an abuser!

You seem like one of those judgemental, self entitled people who has an answer for everything in life, label everyone at the drop of a hat without seeing both sides of the agreement. Good for you. Don't need any help from people like you. No point continuing this futile back and forth with you since you obviously can't help.

Also for the records, yes I had anger issues and I went to a therapist to keep things in check. And no, I don't "live" being in control. I keep telling my wife she needs to make more decisions, which even though she doesn't, I always get her viewpoint. Proving myself better in this marriage does little to nothing in fixing the problem I have I.e. stop the fucking cops from showing up at my fucking door every fucking time I say fucking no for every stupid fucking demand. Any suggestions on that?Oops....now that I wrote fucking a few times, I would be a maniac susceptible to a neurotic breakdown in your world?

Bet you're pretty mad now, huh?