My ex basically forced one on me. She pressured me hardcore into getting it. I was still recovering from the procedure a couple weeks later and she started cheating on me and eventually leaving.

I think its the one thing I think back on which makes me the most mad. The decision was based on our family being done. I never ever expected to be divorced and it fit our family planning. I never envisioned a scenario where I would be 39 and dating again. I guess that is on me. Not being able to have kids is a deal breaker for a large percentage of women that were in my dating pool. Luckily I met someone who was ok with this scenario and we are very happy but the option was essentially removed for us.