You say you would think someone is blessed to have siblings but you literally know nothing about my childhood, my parents, or my siblings. Our childhood was traumatic and i ended up with borderline and my other siblings ended up with different mental health issues. How is that a blessing just because there were more of us?

I am 36. At this point if we aren’t close, do you think we would want to? Maybe there are reasons we aren’t close?

Everyone’s situation is different. It seems that you aren’t listening to anything I’ve said in my comments and keep making assumptions about how YOU feel about it and projecting them onto me.

I guess it helps you feel better about having multiple kids. That’s great! You have made your choices and there’s nothing wrong with that. I’m just sharing my experience. Stop projecting your stuff in my comments though.