dude honestly i’m the same way. talking to non borderlines is so exhausting and tiring. One time recently I was talking to somebody that I was friends with like seven or eight years back. we used to be really good friends and so the conversation ended up going from catching up to me explaining about my borderline and how I came to be diagnosed and what not. when I tell you my jaw dropped at the stupidity that came out of this person‘s mouth I mean it literally dropped. long story short they basically were one of those “well just don’t be sad duh!” type of people. or one of those “why don’t you just” or “I’m sure ur fine everybody has ups and downs! it’s temporary” type of people. I have always dealt with people that have kind a brushed off my mental illness and what not but when I tell you this person introduced me to a whole new level of “life’s so easy and my life has went perfectly planned since childhood and I’m a normie what’s trauma?” i have never blocked someone so fast.