you are not the weird one or hard to deal with. some families can tend to be really harsh on who their kids date and unintentionally or intentionally take it out on you because they have extremely crazy high standards, different cultures or ways of living that you haven’t had time to understand or adjust to and in this case they don’t seem that accommodating to it. Just remember you don’t need their validation to know that you are worthy and were a worthy partner to that person in your life. As much as family and friends may know who you are they will never know the relationship you have and their refusal to try and understand you or be loving or at the least polite and or accommodating is their issue and has nothing to do with you. I am not sure what their ethnicity is but I dealt with a very similar situation before and the mother who was very much obsessed with their child that she didn’t want him dating anyone because she wanted to keep him to herself.