I'm at least an 8 or 8 solid... Like even if i'm not someone's usual type they'll still know i'm considered very pretty in general.
but the ones who really try hard to date me are 7's and 6's.
and my friends will be like "Why are you talking to him lol" Or even the guy himself will eventually make a comment like "You're so [insert compliment], idk why you're talking to me" implying that he feels like i'm above him.
Maybe the high value ones never aggressively court a girl?? that's what made me ask this because i was wondering if it's different for girls who are like 10's.
RPT makes it seem like social status / social proof only matters for males and as long as you're an attractive female nothing else matters but uhh
Oh if that's referring to SEX then yes true of course... an attractive girl can sex anyone who's not saving themselves...
Come to think of it I've gotten commitment from like an 8 around my age before..... I noticed him first and had to hover around him to get his attention. Definitely haven't done that in a while
I've been keeping to myself for a while to work through my issues because i know if i enter relationship right now I might push him away or be a bad gf But I went out for Halloween so
But I do have this guy who wants to commit to me... about 15 yrs older than me, wealthy, pretty cool, looks I'd rate 7 and overall I would rate him 7 because he started showing beta qualities like telling me how he'll do anything i want and there's literally nothing i could do to upset him....
Total turn off for someone who doesn't wanna dominate their man.... does that mean I just need to aim higher or ....
:) Just trying to analyze my life so i can eventually get happy relationship :)