Do you think Asian Masculinity is wrong?

Brampton whites guard their women??? LMFAO get outta here. I have only ever heard people point out "how come Asians only hang out with Asians" around the GTA and complaints from the white people (that don't have an accent, honestly a lot of immigrants are from Europe these days) that "immigrants don't assimilate into Canadian society". What is common knowledge is America is the melting pot, Canada groups maintain their culture and identity.

Okay, and what is those rich Chinese female celebrities date non Chinese? What happens to your argument then?

When my mother's uncle first Immigrated to USA, he gave up a life of luxury and sent most of his earning to my mother's father so they wouldn't starve to death, and this is common among Chinese culture. I doubt an Asian women who has a choice in the dating market would get a downgrade, i'm not saying this because i'm racist, but North American culture is individualistic and cold. If my mother had a white or black uncle, then i wouldn't even be alive right now lol!

You grew up in tough times it seems. We appear to have come from different backgrounds, but I think we have important common ground. My family is from Hong Kong. I know what you are saying about family.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2by2y3gkjcA

And this song describes perfectly the Chinese males that are born into our culture. People tend to point out that we are not "masculine" based on our features, but we are the definition of masculine and it's a good laugh when people try to tell me otherwise.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1U81VoiUSQI

People tell me that the Chinese is a Patriarchy? We might not follow female logic but we do what's necessary to ensure that they are happy and free. China is the one and only true Matriarchy.

Lol yes, I watched many Wong Fei Hung movies as a kid. Nobody points out anything. Chinese males in my family aren't feminine or small. I am the shortest among my dad/uncles/cousins and I am 5'10. My dad is 6ft, cousins 6'1 and 6'2 respectively. There is no shortage of tall, not super skinny Chinese guys these days. Especially now that the northern mainlanders joined the numbers of overseas born Chinese.

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