asking out a guy isn't so bad after all...!

5 weeks in update: we started off very slow, saw each other once for a coffee date, i wasn't sure at first to be honest, the conversation was very platonic and friendly more than anything

we then didn't see eachother for 2 weeks but texted a bit (more like small talk), we met up then for a drink and i already felt more comfortable with him, the conversation was much more flowy and we both managed to open up more. We saw eachother again the day after that and had our first kiss (!), it felt incredible lol. Since then, we've been seeing each other 1-2 times a week and text or call on a daily basis. We didn't have a talk about exclusivity yet, but I would like to go that way. It does feel like we are exclusive but I would like verbal confirmation. I think I will bring it up next time we see each other if he doesn't.

The more I get to know him, the more I like him and feel closer to him. It does seem like he has good intentions and cares about me (I recently had such bad dating experiences and sometimes i wonder what could go wrong of if he is playing me even tho there aren't any bad signs). He does make me feel extremely happy and I love how i can be myself around him and I also appreciate a lot the person that he is, I am really glad about the move that I did, cause none of this would've happened. He did mention it he thought it was a huge turn on that I asked him out and loves seeing someone with that much confidence. I am really looking forward for this relationship to develop more !

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