well, if you are right then i’m working on it. i personally would love to like girls. and i agree with you that people declare themselves as things they might not be, i actually talk to lots of young gay teens in other subreddits and tell them that being gay is not always a phase but it can be.
this is why i haven’t declared anything. and yes, i’m open to the idea that this is a mental condition. you compared it to horrible things like pedophilia, which leads me to believe that you think homosexuality is a bad thing.
things like autism are mental. there are lots of mental disorders that don’t make someone a bad personality. these are the things you did not compare homosexuality to. why not?
is it a mental disorder, or is it a choice?