people can tell me my boyfriend sucks for doing this but he used to jokingly roughhouse with me (not this extreme or often). most of the time i wouldn’t mind bc i thought it was fun. but one time (this was yeeeears ago, this was when we were teens) he put me in a headlock while he was drunk at a friends house and wouldnt let go. i panicked and started crying and i told him i was leaving. i explained to him how im not one of his guy friends he can mess with like that and i think that made him realize the strength difference between me and him. he felt so bad, ever since then he has never ever done it again and that was like 6 years ago.

the fact that you’re boyfriend barely felt any remorse is scary imo. also, the fact that hes almost 10 years older is worrying. id get out now. did he do this before he learn martial arts? whyd he decide to learn it anyway?