o but I just got one today so I’m pretty far behind in terms of game mechanics. But I was gonna try that too

It's okay to have hobbies and things you can enjoy in a relationship. If your boyfriend spends a lot of time on things that aren't with you that doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

I've heard of girls giving their boyfriends ultimatums over hobbies and it just seems so messed up.

Valorant is an exciting new release with a lot of buzz going around about it, and I'm extremely excited to be playing it. I'll probably spend too many hours on it as well.

Also, I know that you might think it's just you because you have attachment/abandonment issues, but it's kind of hard to know how much you should push for contact in this situation. He might even be a bit self conscious about appearing too pushy or bugging you.