Why can I never get past the second date? (18F)

No it’s fine I realize I’m so vague in this post lol. I mean I usually talk about school and future plans and I like to tell funny stories because a lot of things have happened in my life. And the pics I use aren’t edited heavily. Actually one problem that happened to me is when I met a girl she literally looked sooo different than her pics so I don’t wanna put someone else in that situation cause it made me feel bad that I’m like judging her based on looks or something lol. I think maybe my problem is I usually approach people pretty strong, but in person I get a little nervous and need time to get warmed up to them. It’s like that for me for most social situations, I’m pretty quiet and nervous for awhile but then I start to feel comfortable and more open and like myself. I’m not really sure how to overcome that, I just try to power through the nervousness but maybe it is too forced? Also it makes it hard for me to make moves cause since I’m nervous/excited my hands get so sweaty so I don’t wanna like touch them lol this is so bad but seriously dates make me so nervous cause I usually really like the person!!

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