Like, what is up with this “majority”….is there any data pointing to that? Like real data. For hookups, yeah, maybe, but almost 20% of women don’t have orgasms with a partner, period, end of story, they can’t cum unless alone or at all. This completely tips the scales of the orgasm gap.

Do women who can’t cum not have sex? No, they still have sex, for a number of reasons. And why can’t they cum? There is a shit ton of reasons, but some of them most certainly have to do with being completely dependent on a very particular idea or sensation, which sounds a whole lot like unrealistic sexual expectations.

Flat out 65% of hetero women always or usually cum during sex. So, majority isn’t accurate at all.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/alicebroster/2020/07/31/what-is-the-orgasm-gap/amp/

Here’s the kicker though, who is less satisfied with the sex? Men or women in LTR’s…..it ain’t women.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21400335/

And if the orgasm gap is the reason for less sex than men want, then why is the group of women who has the most orgasms (lesbians), the group of women who has the least sex?

Flat out, women and men have sex for different reasons, orgasms being a big one. Men in LTR’s for the majority want their partner to have an orgasm. Many women are not willing/able due to societal norms or personal experience to direct men in what to do to make that happen, and many can’t make it happen at all. This is not a “one group at fault” here. Beyond this, sexual satisfaction does not seem to have much of a link for women’s willingness to have sex, which emotional closeness, their partners drive, and new relationship energy seems to have a much greater link to their own drive. Where as men have a static sex drive and more often want to have sex often even in long term relationships. Why heterosexual women have a lot more sex than their lesbian counterparts (almost half of lesbian long term relationships have sex less than once a month) is because they are in relationships with men, same reason gay men have more sex than hetero men, there is no women.

Flat out the reason men get off and women don’t in hookups is because men’s orgasms are easy, women’s are hard and in LTR’s neither sex is assertive in their needs, as most men are unsatisfied with the sex they are having as well as women not having as many orgasms.