When I was your age I'd had sex with 13 people and had never orgasmed from it. I also thought I just wasn't capable of it. Then I met a guy who changed all that. I was 21 and beyond ecstatic at the revelation. I didn't direct him whatsoever - it just magically started happening. Don't give up! You are still really young and exploring sex. Faking it impedes all of your progress.

It's still pretty difficult for me to orgasm from piv but at least now I know what might get me there. And I have a patient bf who likes to make it happen on the regular. Dreams do come true! But I did start the conversation early on, and told him not to expect orgasms from me. It took time and practice before it ever happened with him but he never made me feel like it was a disappointment. There was always plenty of other things to enjoy. Some guys are jerks about it (they look at you like you're a two headed monster), or get pushy ("did you come yet" ughhh if I had a dollar for every time I've heard that and the answer was NO). You probably don't want to sleep with him if he reacts this way because he's a selfish lover anyway.