Sure, “hey” is how people meet naturally. I’ve found that men who just say “hey” after I’ve initiated and asked something about their profile generally doesn’t go anywhere beyond that initial exchange.

Unless a guy says he’s busy at work or traveling or something, awkward pauses after an exchange or two is definitely a sign that we aren’t matching and/or they’ve met someone else instead. In my experience, men who are interested will continue to pursue me. Those with awkward pauses drop off soon after a “hey sorry, what are you up to” exchange. When I ask what they’ve been up to, they often won’t respond.

Sure I can see a religious girl being hesitant to pursue anything with an atheist. Genuinely curious- were you looking for a relationship or something casual? Do you view it as a “challenge” instead of going after a fellow atheist (or non-religious) female who may be more aligned?

Yes a ONS doesn’t require any rapport. Just a time and place haha