Didn’t she used to be a teacher? Make it make sense!

So this stands out, it is part of Lori's blog mentioned elsewhere in the comments. She defied her headship, but don't you do it!!

      I do have a funny story to end this with. Ken told me I could stay home after I had my second baby. I was a full-time school teacher. I wanted to stay home with Alyssa so badly that I put a hole in my diaphragm and we conceived Ryan! I was so happy because I got to stay home and raise my babies.

        Now, I don't recommend using deceit like this in anyway to get your way. I wasn't a submissive wife back then at all but I did get to stay home. Nothing is worth harming the relationship between you and your husband, though.  God will not honor that behavior, so trust Him, believe Him...He alone is worthy.
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