I never said he was at fault for struggling financially during COVID. This issue was present even before the pandemic. I was not complaining that he doesn't meet my financial needs, but rather that he was completely unprepared.

If you read my post, I mentioned I live in a very rural area. I cannot get a job because I have to drive 30 minutes to get anywhere, I don't have a car or my license and I don't have anyone to take me.

The decision to move down here was not a good one, no. He was the one who wanted me to move in with him and I was dealing with emotional abuse so I did what I thought was best at the time. If I could physically get my shit together on my own, I would, and I wouldn't have written this looking for help rather than having someone make a ton of assumptions and implying i'm an entitled brat looking to mooch off of people.