Here is the thing with blow jobs: women are rarely taught how to ENJOY blow jobs. We have access to porn, magazines, internet sites which teach us HOW to give blow jobs, but there is not a lot of info on how to enjoy giving them. This will be explicit, but here are my tips: *Make sure he is clean to the level which you find preferable. Some women like a freshly showered cock, others like a hot, sweaty after work cock, others like something in between. Ask for what you want in terms of cleanliness. *Before you go down on him, get yourself wet first. Have him do some work on your body. Kissing, bitting, licking, sucking. Whatever you like...I personally prefer to start with deep kissing. I like to have him bite my lips, slide his hands into my hair and tug my head back as he deepens the kiss. Then have him move his lips down to the column of my neck and alternate between kissing it and blowing air after his hot mouth leaves a chill. Bite me softly when I start to moan. Slowly trail kisses down to my breasts, and work on my nipples. Tugging, sucking, bitting, blowing, licking. *Proceed until you have reached a VERY high level of arousal. You can stop here, or have him continue lower and play with you. Fingers, mouth or both. Just make sure your hot for him. VERY hot. *At this time, he should be very aroused as are you. And its time to turn the tables:Typically men devote a much longer time (if they are good lovers) to women's arousal and foreplay then women do to men. As they tend to get harder faster and are ready to go quicker. Here is your chance to turn the tables. *By this point your soaking wet and want to come, but you also want to please him: perfect. *Begin with long strokes from the bottom of the shaft all the way up to the tip following the sensitive vein that runs up the middle of the penis. Take your time. Pretend its an ice cream cone. Lick away. * Start to apply more pressure to your tongue as you slowly lick up and down. Move faster or slower depending on his moans. *As you begin to lick the top of his head flick your tongue, and swirl the top, lick the sensitive v shaped place where his head meets the vein that runs all the way down his cock. *At this point you haven't even taken him in your mouth and you wont for a while yet. *Start to touch yourself in earnest. Enjoy what your hand is doing between your legs, or have him touch you while you long-lick his cock. Enjoy your pleasure and let him know. it. *Begin to take the tip of his cock into your mouth. No more, just yet. Gently suck and swirl your tongue around his head. Long lick him and alternate between long slow licks and quick flicking licks. *cup and gently massage his balls. Tug on them and take them into your mouth gently if you and he likes it. *At this point you and he should be so aroused that the "actual" blow job wont take long. *What I mean by that is the traditional penis in mouth, mouth and hands stroking up and down. Here are some ways to make that more comfortable. *Disregard all porn. *Use your hands, wet them! with spit or lube, your choice. *Stroke with your hands up until where your mouth is comfortable coming down. They are your friends. So if you enjoy deep throating it you wont need so much hand work. If you can only take the tip, your hands should reach up and stoke all the way to where your mouth leaves off. *Listen to his moans, or "tells" and work accordingly. *He will be so aroused by you being aroused from enjoying the blow job it will be amazing for him. *Don't attack the cock and do the chicken head motion. Take your time and follow the advice above, so it will give you and him pleasure. *Once you find your comfort level, you realize the power you have over him, and the ability to give him pleasure in a way that is comfortable to you. YOU WILL LIKE IT, IF NOT LOVE IT. Best to you.