he's off for 6-8 months every year abroad for work,play,... the past 3-4 years. He and I are changing alot lately, and i'm feeling like we're drifting apart.

Got a real argument on fb between us two, while i said honest but mean things to him, because i was sick of seeing him struggle at his own fault, time and time again the same mistakes.

When we were literaly "screaming" at each other over chat, he said some things that made the wedge permanent ("you're crying like a bitch about this, you don't share enough with your friends.")

Yeah i don't share: - He has moved 7 times in 5 years, helped him 7 times with my car + dad's car, moving almost 50-60% of his stuff. most of his friends called it quit after the second move, i was the one who stayed.

• cleaned his houses when he moved, gave him food, access to internet when needed,...

• completly reinstalled his pc twice, one time hours before he left abroad, so he could have contact with us.

• drove him 2 hours to the airport when the train would not come for his flight abroad

• did his whole move while his sister, who promised to help, got drunk while partying

• he needed an amp, got my collegue to search him one second hand, drove him there (50+ mile), amp broke weeks later, got him a first free repair with my collegue, amp broke again months later, got him a second free repair with my collegue, amp breaks again 2 weeks after second repair, still bitches around my head about it, even tough it isn't my amp or i did not sell it to him

• why i don't share with him? because all the stuff i shared, returned broken, pages ripped and wrinkled, gameboy full of scratches, games full of scratches.

• kept my moutch shut all those years because he was in a shitty situation, still is (through his own stupid mistakes), and i wanted to protect him, but i'm not taking it anymore.