Drama On /r/asianamerican As Top Posters Argue About Getting Laid

Sexuality is HUGELY important to men, and you will never understand what it's like. It affects mental stability, your confidence, your sense of value and pride, how society perceives you (IE: wether or not you're weak and vulnerable), and more. If you're at a huge dating disadvantage from the get-go of life, just because of your race, then you will grow up feeling lesser and inferior to other men. No ifs buts or anything else to it. Other men will look down on you and you will feel like shit for the rest of your life. You will feel like a loser and it won't be because of anything tangible, it'll be because of untrue, racist stereotypes. Nobody will even give you a chance.

There are guys on there that are legitimately trying to control Asian women and keep them from outdating, which is wrong. But most of them don't care if Asian women date out, what they care about is that the media is making them look completely undatable. literally any man of any race could tell you that consistently emasculating a group of men (and it's been done to Jews and blacks before) is a horrible thing and also hugely dangerous. If any race is consistently suffering penis jokes, then people will instantly assume (and I can say this as a fact, since I know tons of non-Asian girls who essentially refuse to date Asian men) that your entire race is "no good." The penis is so intrinsically tied to masculinity that it goes beyond any single factor in deciding its importance.

I'm lucky to be white, I can go anywhere in the world and nobody will make racist comments about how I look (actually I've been to Asia and have met several women and gay men there who told me point blanc that they'd rather have a white guy than a local, which was just mind blowing to me). Asian men, on the other hand, have to jump twice as high to get half the distance in the dating world. ANd it's made worse by people like you, who will dismiss it as just they're misoginy and attempts to control women. It's not, if your entire race is presented by the media as undatable, it will infuriate you from day 1, because you will feel like somebody is trying to keep you from ever being happy. Also, yes, it is about getting laid. sorry, sex is a normal part of human life. To have your entire race told that they aren't worthy of one of the most basic, pleasurable feelings on earth. Most humans have sex wether it be casual or romantic in nature and virtually everybody wants it, it's the basic human condition. Wanting sex isn't wrong, rape is wrong, sexual assault is wrong, controlling the dating of a woman or man is wrong, but wanting to get laid? if that's wrong then we're all going to hell. If you're denied one of the most basic pleasures of life because your race is blacklisted, then 100% you have the right to be angry.

Also, just flipping through your post history, you seem to have some serious self-hate issues, so it's kind of hard to take you seriously on this matter.

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