I just went through the bad guy part of this. Believe me he or she probably feels as bad as you do just when a relationship doesn’t work it doesn’t work. Right now she is all I can think about and it is hard not to ask how she is or what she is up to. Trying my best not to text her or answer her text or calls. But I don’t want to have her think there is a chance to get back together because it’ll make it that much harder to get over me. Also it makes it easier to get over her because she is great, just we didn’t work together. The person doing this to you might feel the way I do. Just keep that in mind. I’m sure you’re a great person and you will find someone that is right for you.