3. Every time I believe them, I open up, and in the end I get hurt. I feel so deep ...

Every time I believe them, I open up, and in the end I get hurt. I feel so deep and it hurts so bad. I just want it too end.. I know I’m stronger than that. But thoughts can be tempting. Help me through this?

It is said that wisdom comes from experience and experience is gained through failure. In romance, it is no different. Each ending is a time for reflection, a time to learn something about yourself, who you select and why, what you value, maybe even what the red flags you overlooked may have been. Learn those lessons and let love find you again. Continue to believe because doing so speaks about who you are and want to be. Even the pain of being let down is better than living a cynics life. Joy is hard to find if you live that life. Continue to love deeply. Doing so feeds your soul and that is the right diet for a soul because your love is selfless. And, can you imagine the fireworks when you find another like you?

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