It’s just a personal belief of mine that if I can’t trust them with my money, or if Im not willing to share my earnings, I shouldn’t be marrying him.

I feel this way as well. I told her that it's simply a fact that unless she gets a prenup, her money will become my money when we're married. I don't think she's come to terms with that yet because she hates the idea of a prenup but I wonder if she's actually considerating it. I would not marry someone who wanted to get a prenup because it implies they do not trust me or the marriage to last. I think on one hand she feels the same way, and on the other hand, she feels uncomfortable with the idea that her money will also become my money after we're married.

As for pulling my weight. I absolutely pull my weight around the house. I do a lot of chores. I unload the dishwasher, take out the trash, clean the shower, clean the bedding, do my own laundry, sweep the hardwood floors, clean the countertops, carry in groceries, make ice, clean the house, clean the bathroom countertops, feed the cats, etc.

I do a lot. And she does a lot as well. But anyways...

I just learned I have ADHD last year, so I'm still developing methods of handling it. I haven't come to terms with working in food service with a bachelors because it just feels like it would fill me with regret about getting it in the first place and I don't want to work with a bunch of teenagers or frat/sorority kids. I feel like I'd rather die. I recognize that I'm acting entitled but I don't know how I'd deal with the overwhelming fml feelings.

My last job was at Dominos and it sent me into a horrible depression...It was brutal. They forced me to close twice a week. That meant working from 5pm to 5am on busy nights.

I can't postpone the wedding--the date's been set.

I don't feel like I'm OFFtrack. I'm 2/3rd of the way done with my masters and afterwards I'll start my career as an elementary school teacher.

Thanks for the response.