Indeed. To forgive simply means to stop being angry and to stop punishing the other person for the sake of vengeance, nothing more. It comes with the understanding and appreciation of exactly how poorly the original transgressor's behaviour reflects on their own personal character.
If you are a prideful person with a strong sense of justice, then you are probably exhibiting beta qualities pretty much the way I have for most of my life and I am turning this around now. And if you're having trouble letting go of grudges the way I have had such trouble, then maybe I can share a key to forgiveness I discovered.
When you're holding a grudge and willing to enact vengeance against a woman for her failure to respect your boundaries, you are making a mistake out of ignorance, in effect you've chosen to play dumb and pretend not to understand why she did it. You have to remember that a woman's word does not bind her the way a man's word is binding to him. Do not make the mistake of assuming that there is any reality, stability or strength behind a woman's words. She is not using words the way you are. If your own words spring from your well of inner values, principles, ideas, standards, promises, your reputation and moral standing, just remember that behind a female's words there is only a vast dark emptiness, the void inside the female heart. Under the hood, it's just the void and several basic animal instincts - AF/BB, and unconditional love for her own offspring. Those are the only supported functionalities, everything else is really the gaping chasm of the black void causing self-hate and her own disappointment in herself, and the hamster, ever dedicated to making it all better in her mind.
It is precisely because of this complete and utter black hole that women have for a heart, that they become so terrified of themselves. This is why the hamster is spinning so fast, why so many fleeting emotions and feelz stir up the female brain into a storm. It is all a grand drama-play, a show she puts up for the world to see but really for her own sake, so she can continue to delude herself that she too carries the inner torch of illumination and humanity in her heart, the way a real proper man does.
So if you're having trouble forgiving, just use the key to remember that she is simply incapable of strong self-sustaining emotional self-mastery the way a proper man does. And this is sad and pitiful, it's just really pathetic and unfortunate. Stop turning away, just face it and see it clearly, and sometimes you have to open yourself to the feeling of pity and disgust that you get from contemplating the reality of female nature as it emerges before your very eyes.
So forgive her. She's just a sad creature, an AWALT just like all the others, and she is forever trapped in her own skin, destined to always succumb to her own hysterical explosion of feelings and emotions. And without this constant frenzy of confusing inner feelz, she could not possibly mask the true void inside. The hamster will spin for as long as it takes to convince her that the void of nothingness is not real, but it is.
To forgive her means to stop being angry with her and not to punish her for who she is. Forgiveness is not absolution though. It does not mean to falsify the importance of the transgression, and it definitely does not mean to give her another chance after she has shown you her unworthiness beyond a shadow of a doubt.
Just forgive and leave her. Thus she will remain all alone with her self. Just her, the void and the hamster, hopelessly trying to make it work again. Like any woman, she is her own worst enemy. You do not need to apply any sort of punishment whatsoever - as soon as you leave her, she will remain alone with herself and this is the worst kind of suffering anyway. Women cannot handle the truth. They are too weak to look into the mirror and see themselves for who they are and who they have chosen to be by succumbing to their own natural urges and inclinations so readily. Most women do not even have the backbone to show their real physical face to the world, they would rather wear a mask in public, a real mask they paint onto their own faces every morning and before any public event, they call it makeup. Mimicry, deception, pretense - these tools are the prerogative of a void host organism.
With complete understanding of the reality of the above, the anger will subside. You will see that things are the way they are out of necessity. It's not injustice because it is the only way, there simply is no other way. The NAWALTS sometimes make a valiant effort, but in vain, because the inner corruption seeps through the cracks sooner or later. You will be disappointed, and you will be disillusioned.
The moment she transgresses is simply a threshold in time. It is like the tick of a clock - it simply informs you what time it is, or more precisely, time for what? And the answer is that time is up, it's game over now and it is time to next her. The interaction with her is now exhausted, all the sweet juice to be had was had, and now it's time to end it because the sweet juice is gone and all that is left is the black poison seeping from the void. Don't stick around for the poison, it will kill you.